This is, hands-down, my #1 most asked question when planning a photography session.
"What should we wear?"
Dressing the entire family is a tough job! But I think wardrobe is SO important. There are just some wardrobe decisions that you can make that will yield better image results. What you wear shows your personality, and when you LOOK good, you FEEL good. When you feel good, you're more comfortable and you take BETTER photos! So it's completely worth it (IMHO) to take note of your wardrobe details and plan out a few outfits. ;)
I really love being asked for styling help because all through high school, college, and my early years of first moving to Chicago, I've always worked in fashion retail. I've worked in small high-end boutique stores (Hiiiiiii Bahama Shop + Patricia Timm!), as well as Banana Republic and J.Crew. And I can't forget to mention that my mom worked as a fashion designer in Seoul, and also had her own little prom dress /mother of the bride shop back in Virginia Beach for a few years. Let's just say that it's realllly hard to pay full price retail now. So I at least try to search for a coupon code or wait for a good sale. ;)
Styling Tips DO's
- DO try and incorporate clothes that aren't too 'stiff.' Fabrics that feel good to the touch are likely really comfortable to wear too- ESPECIALLY for kids!
- Flowy, chiffon-y materials for moms do wonders for outdoor environments (think of a spontaneous gust of wind letting that fabric trail behind you...), or while you're moving around with your child.
- DO layers.
- In the fall seasons, multiple layers and rolled sleeves are fabulous. I like to do a fair amount of untucking to make dad's appearance look slightly undone, without looking too sloppy.
- In the warmer months, you can layer by having each member wear similar colored tones without looking too matchy matchy by layering TEXTURES. Or simple things like layered dainty gold necklaces, bangles, and/or rings. It's best to throw a lot on, and edit off a few pieces.
- DO buy and use children's clothing that currently FIT for your kid(s).
- As a mother, I get that you want to get a lot of mileage out of every kid's clothing investment. Especially since they grow out of things so quickly. But clothing sizes that are too big tend to translate as 'sloppy'.
- DO coordinate clothing that fits each member's personality.
- For instance, for a quiet/shy child: muted tones, while their more outgoing sibling can be dressed in brighter colors (just pretty please avoid neon hues!).
- DO adapt a look to your needs.
- DO opt for a timeless look. When in doubt, steer clear of too many trends. The last thing you want is to look at your family portraits 30 years from now and wince of the fashion risks you took.
- DO tell dads to pay attention to their socks. You never know if they'll show while kneeling down or sitting. For in-home sessions, you can always default to bare feet to convey a more relaxed, casual vibe.
- DO empty your jean pockets. We tend to store cell phones, wallets, keys, etc in our pockets. We don't need to look extra bulky in those areas! ;)
I LOVE this look for a mom: comfy, but well put together. It's nice to find clothes that are appropriate for indoors + outdoors, allow for flexibility and comfort in a variety of terrains and situations, and are kid-appropriate (i.e. nothing cut too low or short).
I've sourced similar chinos to the photo on the left. I LIVE in these (below) from Gap and they're exactly as they advertise. I own them in the soft green and washed black. They're a nice alternative to a denim jean.
(More Examples to be added later!)
My Master List That Will Make Shopping Dreams Come True...
- Urban Outfitters
- Free People
- For Love and Lemons
- Hazel (Ravenswood Neighborhood)
- Handle with Care (1706 N. Wells)
- Evereve (Speciality store for moms. Conveniently located on Southport!)
- Aritzia (Online or WaterTower downtown; lots of quality solids + staples)
- Susana Monaco (Stretchy fabric for the WIN!)
- Nordstrom Rack
- Mindy Mae's
- Zara Kids
- Mini Boden
- Petit Bateau
- Gap Kids
- Urban Sunday for bowties & suspenders
- If you're patient, you can also try higher end consignments: Kangaroo Kids, Second Child, or seasonal Babies, Tots & More
- Etsy shops for unique screen printed tees, swaddles, headbands/bows, etc.
- Chloe and Ash - hands-down, BEST suspenders for little boys!
Here are a few wardrobe examples and some of my recent favorite family images.
Hope you enjoy some inspiration! (More updated images to be added later!)
Coming soon to a future blog post near you: STYLIST (make-up + hair) tips + tricks + recommendations!
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